give as good as you get idiom
（尤指在争论或打斗中）针锋相对，以眼还眼，以牙还牙
to be strong and confident enough to treat people in the same way that they treat you, especially in an argument or a fight
There's a lot of teasing and fighting among the crew, and you have to be able to give as good as you get. 船员们会经常相互挑衅打斗，你一定要以牙还牙。