effete
adjective uk/ɪˈfiːt/ us/ɪˈfiːt/
literary disapproving弱不禁风的；了无生气的；软弱无能的
weak and without much power
With nothing to do all day the aristocracy had grown effete and lazy. 贵族们终日无所事事，变得四体不勤，懒散乏力。
disapproving没有男子汉气概的；女人气的
more typical of a woman than of a man