off-putting
adjective [ after verb ] uk/ˌɒfˈpʊt.ɪŋ/ us/ˈɑːfˌpʊt̬.ɪŋ/
C2 令人不快的；令人烦恼的，讨人厌的
slightly unpleasant or worrying so that you do not want to get involved in any way
He's slightly aggressive, which a lot of people find off-putting when they first meet him. 他有些好斗，这让许多人初次见他时都感觉有些厌恶。
What I found off-putting was the amount of work that you were expected to do. 我觉得烦心的是要让你做那么多的工作。