occur to someone
phrasal verb with occur verb uk/əˈkɜːr/ us/əˈkɝː/ -rr-
（某人）想到，（想法或主意）出现在（某人）头脑中
If a thought or idea occurs to you, it comes into your mind.
The thought did occur to me. 我确实冒出了这个念头。
[ + that ] It never even occurred to us that he hadn't been invited. 我们压根儿没想到他未被邀请。
Does it ever occur to you that I might want to be on my own sometimes? 你难道从没想过有时候我或许喜欢独处？